1.
--Is that your daughter? 你女儿吗?
--They won't let me see her.Micheal's parents have sustody. what am I to do? 他们不准我看她,监护权在迈克尔父母手里。我该怎么办?
--You're going to take it one day at a time. We got you housing. You're going to go there; take a shower; take a nap. Don't turn on the TV. You like reading? I'm going to get you some books. Fiction is best. You won't feel like it, but put on nice clothes and makeup; force yourself to. Not for cort-- for YOU. It's the superficial things that matter most right now. 总有一天你会拿回监护权的,我们给你安排了住所,你先去那里,洗个澡,好好睡一觉,不要看电视!喜欢看书吗?我会拿点书给你,小说最合适。你可能不想,但还是要好好打扮一下,勉强一下,不是为了上法庭,为了你自己!现在表面工作才最关键。
--Does it ever get easier? 这能让案子有点起色吗?
--No. But you do get better at it. 不会,但你会感觉好点。
如何处理负面情绪?1.保持理智,不要局限于当下暂时的得失,把目光放的更远 Don't be nervous. 2.转移注意力 3.保持美丽,输人不输阵
1.Throw a personal question into the middle of an intellectual argument
-It gets more honest answers.值得借鉴的谈话思维。
2.Life rarely gives you a chance to reverse a past regret. So,what the hell.有时候遗憾的价值在于如果有第二次机会,你学会了全力以赴。
3.I make up in passion on what i lack in law book.激情比知识重要。很多能力比知识重要,信息的提取分析,问题的深刻思考,法律的精神价值,为人的原则底线...太多太多。
4.学会拒绝别人的热情。
第八集的一些小感悟
1.Short, straightforward answers, give a sense of confidence.
2.对于故事细节描述解释过多,有时候是因为话唠,有时候是因为心虚。
第九集的一些小感悟
1.以恶制恶是个好办法。
第十集的一些小感悟
1."U and I have nothing in common. Cause you and I are from different world, and it's not just Mars and Venus, we're spaghetti and hydrogen, We're from different categories. I am knowable, but just not to you."
这番话太棒了 。
第十三集的一些小感悟
1.“innocent until proven guilty”法律上常讲的一个词
2.
-“Why can't i shoot to injure?"
-”You pick up a gun, you shoot to kill,or you don't pick up a gun."