太细腻太动人。最后adrian和leo在舞池里的画面，突然觉得这部电影就是要用黑白拍。carly的亚裔脸庞也很适合黑白（她太美了…）最后几个无声段落特别好，让人叹气，好的剧本真的几秒就让你看到人性了…adrian跟狗哭着说我真的不知道怎么告诉他们、我真的很想你的片段，我也曾有过…
另一个感叹的是，1985年，heavily repudican的america，好像到今天还没怎么变过。adrian说他朋友去世了，爸爸妈妈都不想接纳他的时候，想到conversation with friends （写于最近）里写，google “how do i tell my parents...” 最先出来的搜索提示是 “I’m gay”.
很感谢在这个时间看到这部电影，之前之后可能都不会对他写给弟弟的那封信那么有感触。“you’re gonna have some tough days. Days where you’ll feel like everything sucks. ... days where you’re gonna feel like you just don’t belong. ...and i want you to know, you’re not the only one that feels the way you do. There’s a whole world out there for someone like you. I promise you you’re not as different as you think you’re. And mom and dad, they might not get it. A lot of friends might not get it either. ... and i know that you’re gonna learn to be happy with who you are. And you may need to be in another place to be happy. And you know what? That’s ok. ... and in another time, at another place, you’re gonna meet the right people, people who are just like you. ...so hang in there Andrew. Things tend to get a little darker before they get brighter.”
也呼应了很多年前青峰说的，如果你现在有想做的事情，但它不一定被身边的人理解，不要害怕，不要放弃去寻找那个在远方等待你的知音。
