Nicole: Did it ever go away? (她妈妈也有过失去儿子的伤痛，所以Nicole问她妈妈这种伤痛是否曾离开过)
Mother: No. I don't think it does. It changes though. The weight of it, I guess. At some points, it becomes bearable. It turns into something you can crawl out from under, and carry around like a brick in your pocket, and you even forget it for a while. But then you reach it for whatever reason...and that can be awful but not all the time." "It doesn't go away, which is fine."
对，失去亲人(或是爱人) 的伤痛不会离开 (至少对我来说是)，但伤痛的程度是会变化的，有时候你感觉你可以承受这一切，甚至是忘掉伤痛；但在当某种情况下你又想起来，这又是一次沉重的打击。伤痛永远不会离开，但这是没关系的......It's fine.
It will always be part of my life, but it's not something bad.
