更新时间:2017-07-17

周末时光:对白杂记

画面、BGM、色彩都是清新柔和而美的，不赘言啦！亮点在对白，三天两夜，过去、自我、社会、家庭、友情，一切可言的都谈到了。不少对白蛮有启发性。
写在摘录对白之前。
如果是两个很灵的人，很容易在短短几日把政治、经济、音乐、文学、美术、自然、情感都说个遍的。可是，井喷式的交流快感以后呢？是不是生活就沦落到茶米油盐的寡淡了？焦虑攀上了心头。想起朱光潜的《谈美》，说艺术是不会死的，因为艺术的本质是生命。生命不死，艺术不死。活着，感受、观察、体验、思考，尽可能免于流俗。
1.While you are projecting who you want to be, this gap between who you want to be and who you really are. And in that gap, it shows you what is stopping you becoming who you want to be.
All of that from talking sex.
为什么是sex？可能是，sex是我们的本我、本能、动物性，具有逻辑上的基础性与优先性，所以对它的态度与行动能最大限度反映我们是否忠于自我，是否言行一致。是不是伪君子，是不是只会放嘴炮，是不是耻于面对自己的某一部分。
2.Do they freak out?
I told them Nature or Nurture, it's your fault. So get over it.
哈哈哈哈哈啊哈。笑到捶床。不就是因为基因和原生家庭嘛！都是你们的锅，怪我咯？
3.Thus would people do the compromise because nobody Nobody can do with being by themselves. It's like you want everybody to think independently, But you want everyone to fucking agree with you.
他俩所有的可爱与晦暗都是由于标准定位，一个以自我为一切的尺度，故而放浪形骸，纵酒长歌；一个以社会的准则为圭臬，因而离群独处，温和疏离。总觉得高潮那段儿争吵蕴含着太多的值得琢磨，其实不过是两个人性情心绪的集中迸发喷溅。还是有不少平等、权利的观点匆匆略过了，什么时候再回顾一遍。
4.I know What you're going to say. It's nice being around people of my own kind, my own people. Cause they think the same as me. We talk about all the same thing. We've got the same things in common. But it's not like that. You know, it's essentially they're all just Indians as well. Except dance a lot more.
讲真的，queer as folks，首先是个体的人，再是其他别的什么。同性恋只是一个标签而已，跟其他标签性质上没什么不同。而任何通过贴标签来评判个体的行为都非常愚蠢。
5.It's like when you have the same friends for too long, Everything becomes cemented.They won't let you be any version of yourself, except an old version. Old version they wanted you to be.
不由联想到海边的曼彻斯特。有些人是见不得的，他们的存在就在时时刻刻提醒你，过去的你是这样的，过去你做过这样的事。有时候你知道自己过去某个缺陷，努力把它修整了，但遇到彼时的一些人，压抑的记忆分分钟浮现。如果是一直保持联系，一直共同成长的旧人还好。那些见面仅限于同学聚会的人，真的心底里抵触。切断联系，过自己的生活。
6.I dont do boyfriends. I dont do goodbys.
Don't tell me that people get married because of love. People get married for the same reason that They buy a house or a dog. To tie them down.
爱、性、个体安全感、社会安全感，这些在一段关系中是混杂一体的。爱的纯粹性与后三者的世俗化性质上是对立的，所以婚姻是爱情的坟墓不无道理，婚姻更多的是后三者。但如果有人能做到以出世的态度做入世的事业，兼得也并非不可能。简言之，艺术化与社会性达到和谐。太难。